Handfasting Ceremony

Handfasting is possibly the oldest recognised wedding custom. It can be associated with Pagan, Wicca, folklore, Celtic, Judaic, Hindu & other weddings.

Perhaps this maybe where we get the phrase ‘tying the knot’ from.

Handfasting is a meaningful, visual and memorable ceremony, regardless if you have spiritual or religious beliefs ,or none at all.

If you’d like to know more or to book your own handfasting ceremony please get intouch.

Specialising in handfasting

I have spent many years studying and specialising in various kinds of handfasting.

This doesn’t mean I am a self proclaimed expert; far from it as nobody truly is. What is important to know for those seeking a handfasting ceremony is it is a symbolic, and memorable ceremony, and it is what you want it to be.

Can non-Pagans have a handfasting?

Many non-Pagan couples can, and do have handfasting ceremonies.

With the increase in numbers seeking celebrants to perform handfasting ceremonies, many couples have been influenced by TV, film and media shown handfasting. Game of Thrones and Vikings both featured variants of handfasting ceremonies as have various programmes about weddings. A form of handfasting was also featured in the film Braveheart.

Religious, spiritual or colour themed handfasting is the binding together of the hands of the couple or the people the ceremony is for. Different chosen colours of cords and ribbons are the most popular materials chosen and these are placed singularly or have been braided are placed around the wrists and tied in a knot around, over or under joined hands. Materials used are personal choices of those involved and some choose to use family clothing from loved ones no longer with them.chosen locations.Family members, children or friends can be involved in a handfasting by placing the ribbons if required.

Decorating/ Personalising cords

Many couples make and decorate their own handfasting cords.

It is a symbolic occasion, and some do it during specially chosen times on relevant dates.

Other couples request the cords are made for them used specific colours, some buy them online from sellers or from shops in visited places.

Charms and important trinkets and small photographs can be added to handfasting cords. Pictures of family members, pets, tokens of remembrance of important places, the initials of the couple or jewellery are often used.